About Kapil Goel
I coach introvert professionals
get career clarity, overcome self-doubt, raise confidence
in 30 days
My Experience and Background
I’m an Agile Coach with 19+ yrs of corporate experience, turned into Career & Life Coach by passion.
✅ Transformed career twice from being
– S/W Engineer to Project Manager
– Scrum Master to Life Coach
✅ 6 yrs of experience in corporate agile coaching
✅ 150+ hours of professional coaching experience
✅ 1 Million+ views on my LinkedIn posts
✅ Certified Life coach, NLP practitioner, & Pranic healer
Firm believer in the power of gratitude and self love to design a fulfilling life.
Nowadays I’m working on a passion project to interview Introverts / confident professionals.
My Growth Journey
I grew up in a state of politics, power, aggression, and love. My childhood was having a monstrous social impact on my psyche, and I acquired anger as my second nature.
My sturdy belief was people listen to you when you shout, anger is natural, and it’s your right.
After a few years in my job, my behavior came in my way and impeded me to grow in the professional career. One day one senior leader gave me candid feedback on my spiked behavior, and still I’m thankful to him.
I believed that a positive change was required. But I had no clue what, where, and how I’ll move forward.
One Sunday morning, I came across a spiritual video on YouTube that gave me a new perspective to my raged behavior. My deep-rooted beliefs got shattered in a snap. It was a thunderbolt moment for me.
My personal growth journey continued from there. I went deeper and started implementing few lessons in my life. I became curious about the mindset, behavior, and actions. I practiced mindfulness, observed thought patterns – what causes pain and happiness.
I stopped reading newspapers, watching news channels to stop feeding junk. I knew I was losing many things happening around me, but the gain was powerful. I could feel the energy to redirect my life as I want.
With positive intent and practice my life changed in five year. I became version 2.0 of my former self. My anger level dipped, stress got down. I was peaceful. I acquired ab ability to absorb the life shockers in a better way. My relationship got improved.
I shifted to a new career into agile that required a different skill-set. It was close to my true character. I got financial stability. Became debt free. Five years might sound like a big number to you, but this journey was gradual and thorough.
Although my life was much better than my former self, but from deep within I was getting kicks to add meaning to my life. Every day I used to wake up with a puzzling mind. What will I do in my life? When will I start giving than taking?
This constant nagging pushed me to create an impact on people’s lives and elevate myself in a specific area.
I tried different ways to grow and kept on experimenting with what I like, love, and desire. I created a faster feedback loop to shape the path. I sharpened my skills in personal finance, stock market, value investing, book reading, writing, coaching, and mentoring.
I adopted journaling that helped me to improve my focus, motivation, and self-confidence. I started breaking and building new habits using a goal based habit system that I created for myself. I focused on things that were important to me, but not urgent.
This 3.0 growth journey gave me never-ending fuel and purpose to my life. And now I’m spreading my knowledge and experiences to make people grow, raise their self-esteem and life a fulfilled life.
My Childhood Story
I remember I stood many times in front of the mirror and asked myself, who am I? I used to stare at my eyes, nose, and body, but never got an answer. This was during the 5th or 6th standard time period. I didn’t know why I used to ask. Maybe it was an early sign to find something.
I was born in a middle-class family in India and grew up in Kanpur city of UP state. We lived in a single-room house from hand-to-mouth for 20 years. My father was the clerk in a government job and the only earning member in a family of four. But I was happy with my life and limited resources.
If I recall my early school days, I was someone who could easily empathize with my friends. During any conflicts or misunderstandings, I always tried to understand the situation from the other’s perspective. I never tried to follow the crowd. I should say my thinking was a bit unconventional from the rest of my friends.
As I grew, I finished a degree in computer engineering and eventually got the job after a year. With time I shifted to the city for humongous software opportunities, known as Bangalore. Things moved on, and I got married (arranged) to a loving life partner Aarti. After many years I was blessed with a son. We call him Darsh.
All of this didn’t mean my life was super smooth. I did struggle financially and to get my first job. I did wrestle to create a synergy between being a husband and son. I did crawl in my career, craved to have a child, and bla bla. All of this had taught me life skills, and my growth journey shaped up.